Helping to raise someone else's kids when your closer to their age than you are their father's, has its obvious challenges and pluses. Traci and Scott didn't ask for their parent's divorce after 15 years of marriage, but it happened. Like most marriages ending in divorce, there was an absence of Christ, other than Easter or Christmas. (Let me be clear, I was not the reason for their divorce, wanted to get that out of the way.) Traci and Scott were then 14 and 10, respectively